This is something I’ve been thinking about since I decided to do a “no buy” year back in December 2018, and then thinking about why losing VIB Rouge status is even important to me. Serein Wu recently posted a video touching on this and I share many of the same feelings.
Presently as I write this on April 8, 2019, a little more than 4 months into my 13-month no buy year, I would need to spend $940 at Sephora before taxes by the end of 2019 to reach VIB Rouge Status for 2020. I’ve only spent $60 at Sephora since December 2018, averaging out to about $15 per month. If I continue along similarly with this spending average, there is no way I will reach VIB Rouge Status again by 2020. Even if I were to quit buying replacement products from the clinic I work at or the drugstore, I would still have to spend a little over $100 a month at Sephora to reach status again.
I think I first entered a Sephora about 4 years ago or so, back when I was but an infant mystified by the world of makeup and skincare. My friends were super into Sephora, but we didn’t have one in my university city yet. However, one opened up not too much later, and I gradually began shopping there more and more. At first I had zero disposable income during my first year of university, but gradually I picked up part-time work while in school, which fuelled the shopping.
At one such part-time job at a spa in my hometown, I worked with a number of reception staff who were trained as makeup artists and collected makeup, and this rubbed off on me. At this point in time I thought it was wild and unfathomable that I somehow made VIB status, and couldn’t believe that these ladies regularly made VIB Rouge status. I was a little envious not only of their makeup skills, but their luxury makeup collections as well.
As I found myself working more, school getting more difficult, and my mental health declining, I spent more and more. I became a little obsessed with the cycle of new releases, and was the person who would stay up late just to get a new palette as soon as it launched on Sephora. At this point, I had definitely more than made VIB Rouge status, and maintained this status for 3 years.
Sephora has done this really great job of marketing their rewards program and making it seem far more luxurious and important than it actually is. Even the language they choose to use amplifies the want to reach each tier of the program. Rather than using “VIB level” or “VIB tier”, they use “VIB status”, alluding to high social standing. They stagger their “perks”, saving benefits like free standard shipping and VIB Rouge event access for Rouges only.
All of these perks make a person feel special and privileged at first, but when it comes down to it these perks are not really a worthy award for the amount of money you are spending, and their only use is to aid in the shopping process. The tiny sample sizes are often too small to even be considered a proper travel-size, and only wet your lips to encourage you to buy other high-end products. The savings you receive are minimal, and the events are entirely shopping and sale based. Why did it make sense to spend $1000 on makeup, before taxes, in a year just to receive free shipping and tiny samples? I very rarely place a makeup order under $50, so by default I’m getting free shipping regardless of my Rouge status. While I love samples and travel sizes as much as the next person and find them to be quite handy at times, they often just end up sitting in my bathroom drawer unused until they expire.
After mulling over these points and Serein’s video, I realized that being sad about losing a fake status was something I didn’t need to waste my time with. In fact, losing VIB Rouge status or VIB status would actually be an accomplishment; it would mean that I’m making wiser financial choices and refining and minimizing my beauty collection.
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I recently finished the @essencemakeup Superlast 24 H Eyebrow Pomade Pencil (Waterproof) and their Make Me Brow Gel Mascara in Soft Browny Brows.
I loved both products, and think that overall as a brand Essence gives you fairly good quality for your dollar. The Pomade Pencil was like a thin, waxy crayon that could be blended out but also helped hold brow hairs in place and withheld excessive sweating for the most part. The gel mascara was a tad too light for me, and I do have it in the darker shade that is a bit more appropriate for my colouring, but still excellent. Holds brows in place while giving a bit of a tint to make them appear a bit darker and fuller.
If you’re looking for an affordable brow duo, this is my favourite! And apparently everyone else’s favourite, too–I usually have to go to multiple Shoppers or Superstores to find them in stock.
I have become very aware of my moments of weakness, and what triggers the mindless Sephora app browsing for myself. Usually it stems from the idea that “*something has happened* so, I deserve *blank*”. For example, “A patient verbally abused me on the phone at work today, so I deserve a pick-me-up”, “I’ve been doing so great at my no-buy that I deserve a treat”, “It’s my birthday in April, so I deserve a gift”, etc. My default thought process basically goes about self-care and emotion-regulating entirely wrong.
I’ve been trying to rethink these sorts of enabling thoughts. “I work hard so I deserve to be debt-free”, for example. I still mindlessly scroll through the Sephora app, but for shorter periods of time, and I unload my cart more quickly rather than letting these items pile up there for another day. Spending money on things I don’t need or even necessarily want when I know I have debt and upcoming expenses is no longer something I can pretend is okay, and even “window shopping” online isn’t as satisfying as it used to be, which is good! This lowers temptation significantly.
Through all the temptations and tribulations, here is what I actually purchased in March:
Total dollar value of products purchased: $288
What I used up in March:
Total dollar value of products used up: $76
Not my best month, according to the numbers! And definitely not great compared to last year’s numbers. In 2018, on average, I spent $197.83 per month at Sephora. Mind you, this didn’t include work purchases, and I certainly did a fair amount of shopping at work, so the numbers may not be that far off. Still, I would like to get to a point where I am spending significantly less than I did at this time last year, so that I can save significantly more money towards things that actually matter.
Because I am sitting pretty comfy with my makeup and skincare stash right now, I’m going to challenge myself more for the month of April within my no buy. I will buy absolutely nothing for my entire birthday month with my own money. I don’t foresee myself running out of anything, so I will need no replacements.
My first year as a laser technician in a cosmetic skin clinic was a bit of a wild one! Originally, I had started working at a prominent skin clinic in Western Canada as a part time receptionist, while working part time at Saje Natural Wellness, to save up money to move out on my own as I finished up my English degree and Public Relations certificate. I joke that I became a laser technician “by accident”, as I didn’t have an intention of becoming one or even staying in the same industry after I finished my degree.
However, less than a month into this new job, one of my coworkers announced that she was opening her own hair and wig salon, and would be drastically reducing her hours at the clinic. Because I was only part time at the time, and was nearly done my degree, the doctor and owner at that time asked if I wanted more hours and wanted to start training to be a laser technician. I honestly just said “Sure, I’ll give it a try.” because I really enjoyed the atmosphere of the clinic, how kind my coworkers there were, and knew that finding a job in January as an English B.A. graduate could be difficult. I figured that I would train as a laser technician and work enough hours to quit my lovely but exhausting retail gig, and keep searching for English-related jobs in the meanwhile.
I eventually quit searching as diligently for English-related jobs because I enjoyed the work I was doing, and most of the jobs relevant to my degree either strictly wanted Business majors, or paid less than what I was presently making at that time and had no benefits. I still keep my eye out for part-time English-related jobs because it is a passion of mine, but I am also happy with the path I chose for now. I kept working reception and laser, even as most of the chain of clinics sold to brand new, new-to-the-industry owner. I lasted about eight months with this new owner, until myself and nearly ever single staff member of not only our location, but the other locations by the same name, were laid off.
Though it was terrifying, disheartening, and stressful to be laid off (I hope to do a post in the future about what it is like to be laid off and how to prepare for a lay-off!), it ended up being a relief. I was laid off at the beginning of the lay-offs and didn’t have trouble collecting my severance. I was entirely free to seek employment elsewhere, and find a workplace whose ethics and protocol matched both mine and the industry’s standards.
A brand new clinic with only one other location out of province was opening up just around the block, and the timing of the lay off perfectly allowed for me to discover this clinic, interview with them, and train at their existing location before the clinic opened. I was so lucky to have been able to find a job relatively quickly! For the past five months I have been working for this new clinic and helped it to open, and I have learned and experienced a lot.
It’s been a wild year, but here is what I learned! I hope that what I’ve learned will help out other brand new laser technicians and medical aestheticians as they break their way into the industry.
Though I am now only a year and a quarter into being a laser technician, I have learned so much, but still acknowledge that I have so much more to learn. I’m excited to see what this next year will bring!
Recreating the goldfish cracker meme but with empty products and this is the look I got 😂 In all honesty I’m mad because my cat’s hair is the softest thing in the world, and no matter how many bougie hair masks I use mine will simply never compare.
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@physiciansformula Killer Curves Mascara: A bit clumpy when you first start using it, but what mascara isn’t? I think this made my lashes look quite nice and I have no complaints! I liked the metallic packaging because it’s easy to find on my dark dresser counter when I’m doing my makeup while visually impaired in the mornings.
@gloskinbeauty Oil Control Emulsion: A very light-weight, hydrating product perfect for excessively oily skin. It did mattify me a little in the mornings and gave me a bit of hydration. I liked to use this during the day when I wanted to be a little less shiny, and then used heavier hydrators and moisturizers at night when I don’t give a damn what I look like. 60mL lasted me quite a long time, and I would use again.